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All Major Prophets After Christ Are False.

People always talk about the burden of knowledge — the pain and depression that comes with ‘knowing too much’. But no one ever tells you how knowledge makes you angry. How it gets you thinking and makes you question everything you've ever known. No one talks about how knowledge fascinates, intrigues, and shakes the very pillars of your core beliefs.My interest in knowledge has me dabbling into religious concepts. I'm not a “stoic” Christian who believes in the absolute infallibility of Christian...

Letter to Santee.

You’d have to watch a video through this link before you read this piece. Santee was unashamedly authentic, and for today, she’s my muse. I’m dedicating this one to all Christians out there, especially the girlies who’ve found it not so easy to wear the crown, yet push through anyway.Dear Santee,I love you. I say this first because I’m certain it would be Jesus’ first and constant word to you throughout this phase. As much as it should be enough - sometimes, it just isn’t, is it? Sometimes, we w...

The Chosen

I have come to the conclusion that it is better to ramble and make a nonsense piece than edit like a bereaved soul, in chase of perfection. The chaos in my head and environment might have something to do with it, but I've held onto this idea far too long to care any more. Dear Reader, after 3 weeks, and 9 failed attempts to pen what my eyes would consider read-worthy…in the midst of screaming at my 8 little munchkins (siblings) to at least pretend to be sane, a slight headache, and deadlines i w...

Every Heresy begins with "It's not that deep"

Heresies are wonderful to learn about.Especially because it tests your understanding and broadens your mind beyond your little cocoon. Yesterday, I came across a heresy called modalism - a failed attempt to explain the Trinity. Two minutes into reading about it, I realized I’d once preached that same heresy to someone else.Today, I want you to read and learn about the Trinity - specifically, some heresies that were birthed in an attempt to explain it and make the Christian God palatable to human...

Why Jesus 'Had To' Die.

I realize that a lot of Christians struggle to explain to unbelievers and even to themselves the reason Jesus died. They trip up on their words, struggle with expression and fumble when hit with questions like; And it aches my heart. It aches my heart to know that there is a profoundly poetic understanding of Christianity in 100% of the fold but 90% of us can’t save a fly if an explanation depended on it. I hope this piece helps the clan.…. Now, this piece would be more or less like a lecture. I...

GOD'S GENOCIDE

One of the issues in Christianity which keeps getting swept under the rug is the genocide God ordered - the one He committed. The disregard for this ‘sin of God’ is immoral, shocking and irritating. The direct orders in the Bible to kill/utterly destroy women, children and cattle gets treated like another history page, when in reality it shakes the very cores of the Christian idea of who God is. Let’s talk about it. In my last piece, I wrote about other religious movements and why their main fig...

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Dear Hypocrite,

A moment of silence for man and his hypocrisy. Really. We need to be given medals for the way we react to every issue that tickles our interest. I was passing by a newspaper stand on Kill-Time Street the other day, and I met a bunch of men, (let’s call them Vs) arguing about what I assume to be politics or life issues. It’s always an interesting sight - how everyone suddenly knows the rituals, hidden and unspoken secrets of life when they start to speak. You’d think they - not God - were in cont...

Dear Chatterbox,

Read The Algorithm is God to know how to guide your mind, and Dear Hypocrite to know how to gauge your reactions.This piece is to give you a solution.In the past one month, Nigeria has seen a significant trail of bad news. It’s been scandal after scandal, death after death, and an atmosphere of lost hope in the nation.We started off with the heartbreaking Ochanya case - a girl who was raped by both father and son from age 8 till age 13, and eventually died from VVF.Then, we saw global attention...

GIRL CODE 101

Alright gentlemen (and major global headaches), welcome to Girl Code 101 - the sacred rulebook every woman instinctively knows but somehow manages to fly right over your heads. If you've ever found yourself wondering why your girlfriend, sister, or that girl you've been "talking to" (when you might really be wasting her time) is giving you the death stare, congratulations! You’ve violated Girl Code.And I don't blame you (completely). The way our brains are wired is different from yours. Sometime...

Bro Code 101

Few weeks back, we did one for the girls. Go back and retain it.This week, I couldn’t decide whether to write a piece on Bro Code for the ladies (to help them understand how simple men are), or one for the boys (‘cause the patriarchy is crumbling from within). But after some serious thinking, I decided to do the Bro Code for men since some of y’all are out there moving like NPCs in your own lives.Disclaimer: I’m a dudette, but take this list as law. Break it, and may your WiFi forever be slow, y...

Who really benefits from Polygamy?

Jealousy.That’s the automatic response I get every time I reject polygamy. The last man I talked this over with was absolutely sure my stance came from jealousy. It didn’t matter what I said or how I said it - it always circled back to that exhausting assumption.I’m writing this to prove him wrong.I’ve heard a lot of justifications for polygamy. From gender statistics, to historical exceptions framed as prescriptions, and even religious permission. People have a way of boycotting 21st century ph...